Standing Tall: A Memoir of Tragedy and Triumph

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When Vivian Stringer recruits players for the Rutgers women's basketball team, she doesn't just promise them that they'll play on a wonderful team. She looks the parents in the eye and promises them that if their daughter plays for her, she'll treat her like a daughter, and do everything she can to make sure she graduates and is prepared for life. She means it, too: she's still in touch with most of the young women she coached.

She's the real deal. She comes from modest roots, as the daughter of an African-American coal miner, but was raised with self-confidence and an incredible work ethic. She also has a huge heart, and genuinely cares for everyone she knows. She's overcome incredible adversity: the death of both her father and her husband at young ages, caring for a daughter who suffered severe brain damage from spinal meningitis, surviving breast cancer, and more, but she soldiers on and makes the most out of life.

I haven't played on a basketball team since jr. high, and I didn't play any school sports in high school. Even so, I was completely entranced by this book. By the time I got to the end of the book, where she recounts how she chose to respond to Don Imus's "nappy-headed hos" comment, I wasn't at all surprised that she handled it with the utmost of grace and courage.

I wish that all coaches were as inspirational as Vivian Stringer!

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