Losing It: And Gaining My Life Back One Pound at a Time
Free Press - Free Press
Release date: 2008-02-25
Hardcover
Author: Valerie Bertinelli
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Losing It: And Gaining My Life Back One Pound at a Time
Date undefinedI personally (for the most part) enjoyed reading this memoir. While I, too, was expecting more than what it had to offer (some more personal insights rather than marketing Jenny Craig would have been nice), I found it hard to put down and felt as though I know who she is (to some degree).
I did take some issue with the fact that she still has some emotional growing to do (but then again, don't we all?). There was one part, in particular, that botherd me about her. It was when Wolfie was younger (I think maybe about 8 or so) and he started rebelling against her and saying mean things to her. Valerie attributed it solely (or at least in writing) to Eddie's drug and alcohol abuse and their constant fighting. She needed to look a little further than that! The sentences before that statement, she admitted to basically smothering the kid and putting ALL of her efforts into being a mother. Any kid who feels smothered by a parent will rebel in an effort to create their OWN identity, which may or may not have had so much to do with Eddie's drug use as it had to do with Valerie's clinginess to being a mother. Valerie seems to take little responsibility for her part in these things. But, she does seem to be a work-in-progress, so at least that is a good thing.
Otherwise, it was a pretty good book. Would I recommend it? Sure! Especially to women who have issues with their weight (and I know A LOT of them--myself included!)
I also need to add that the editing was terrible. I found several words misspelled and while it's not the end of the world, it's a little annoying while reading it. What do they pay editors for, anyway?
Losing It: And Gaining My Life Back One Pound at a Time
Date undefinedAlthough I grew up in the late 80s/90s, I enjoyed "One Day At A Time" reruns and caught Valarie Bertinelli's movies of the week. but I didn't know much about her life. Her childhood was nothing out of the ordinary, but she shot into super stardom as the youngest daughter on her hit 70s sitcom. Although she talks openly about her co-star Mackenzie Phillip's struggle with drugs, there isn't a whole lot of dirt behind the scenes. She writes about her in a sympathetic, sisterly way. Val also reveals her later drug addictions that began even before her marriage to Van Halen member, Eddie Van Halen. She also talks about motherhood and conquering her weight issues, even an attempted encounter with another woman. The best thing about the book is Val's telling of her story. She's completely down to earth and her tone is conversational, like being an old friend sitting in her living room. She doesn't try to pretty up her faults and mistakes or excuse them. She's honest and reveals herself as any other human being. She's refreshing and just fun. You can pick it up at your local library, but this one is worth the cash, I say.
Losing It: And Gaining My Life Back One Pound at a Time
Date undefinedI am in the process of throwing this book in the garbage - the only reason I read it to the end was to see if there would be anything worth reading. The book didn't keep my attention with it's short, choppy and repeating sentences. It really irks me that she mentioned, about 500 million times, Eddie Van Halen's drug and alcohol problem, which seems to have caused partial blame for her numerous weight gains and added to her insecurities. I didn't buy her "confession" about doing drugs and sleeping with this and that person - those parts of the book were just too vague. In my opinion, she put those pieces in her book to make her look like the "bad" girl she isn't. Her book is premature - she's obviously still insecure - as she can't seem to be happy with the weight loss she has achieved, and she hasn't been with Jenny Craig long enough to prove herself. AND, Jenny Craig CALLED HER and PAID HER a lucrative sum to be their spokesperson - she was not the one who approached them for a weight loss solution. Yes, she lost the weight she said she would, but she hasn't had a long enough maintenance record to prove to me that she can keep it off, which is another reason her book is premature. I liked Valerie, until I read her book and realized that she's nothing but a whiny, poor me person. Suck it up woman. If you really want to gain the respect of your readers, don't talk negatively about your former husband's problems, stop blaming everyone and everything for your weight problems, and prove to us, and Jenny Craig, that you really have gained a new insight and purpose in life by keeping the weight off and keeping the healthy attitude you claim to have for the rest of your life.
